Connecting, growing, and navigating new beginnings

April 9, 2025
by Tanya

Beginnings and Endings Community International Living in LA

At the start of this Post-Professional Master’s of Occupational Therapy (PP-MA) program, I often wondered if I would truly make the most of the Person-Environment-Occupation fit I was hoping for. Fast forward to now, and we are nearing the end of the Spring semester, and I can confidently say that this journey has been a transformative one.

Stepping into the unknown with the PP-MA program felt like embarking on an adventure, one filled with excitement, fear, and anticipation all at once. But maybe that is the point. The discomfort, the uncertainty, the moments of doubt - these are not barriers but catalysts, pushing me toward experiences I never imagined for myself. Being away from home and out of my comfort zone has made me confront and learn new things about myself.  It has opened my eyes to new perspectives, strengths, and vulnerabilities. This journey has been more than just an academic pursuit; it has been a quiet, steady unveiling of self. A reminder that growth often happens in spaces where comfort does not exist.

Adjusting to my new role as a student was something I had to learn to embrace, and now, I have grown to enjoy every moment of it. The routine of readings, assignments, quizzes, and presentations no longer feels foreign or overwhelming. They have become a regular part of my academic life, and I found myself discovering new knowledge that bridges the gaps in my understanding - knowledge that I am looking forward to apply when I return back into practice.

As I continue my studies, I am constantly amazed by the vast body of knowledge in occupational therapy and the humbling realization of how little I know. We often get caught up in treating clients, but I have learned to question the evidence behind our practices and truly reflect on whether we are as evidence-based as we think. It will be a lie to say that all has been smooth sailing. There are moments when I miss my previous occupation as a working adult. As I pursue the Sensory Processing/Sensory Integration Graduate Certificate and begin managing my caseload at the clinic, I cannot help but feel a sense of nostalgia for the certainty and routine of my previous career. Yet, in these moments of uncertainty, I realize how much I have grown and how much I still have to learn.

Being far from home, with a 15-hour time difference, made staying connected with family and friends challenging. Technology helped bridge the gap, but time zone differences meant missed calls, delayed responses, and moments when I simply could not share my experiences in real-time. No matter how much I valued those relationships, there was an inevitable disconnect - a gap between my world here and the one I left behind. What truly kept me grounded in this new chapter of my life was my social environment - my classmates and housemates. They became more than just people I studied or lived with; they were my biggest source of support, encouragement, and comfort. They turned what could have been a lonely experience into one of growth, shared memories, and unexpected friendships.

One of the greatest surprises was discovering how my classmates, despite our differences, fit together like a puzzle. We came from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and personalities - some were quiet and introspective, others loud and full of energy, and some a mix of both. But somehow, when brought together, we complemented and strengthened each other.

It was through them that I learned and grew the most, not just as a student, but as an individual. They challenged my perspectives, encouraged me when things got tough, and made even the most stressful moments more bearable. Whether it was discussion, bouncing around ideas, or gathering for a meal, there were always ways to uplift each other with both encouragement and laughter. I have learned simple phrases in Korean, Spanish, and Tagalog while also refining my Mandarin speaking abilities.

Beyond academics, they became my family away from home. We explored new places in LA, introduced each other to foods from our cultures, and even navigated unforeseen situations together — like the recent fires. There was something deeply reassuring about knowing that no matter what, I had people to turn to.

Stepping into a new environment can feel daunting, but the connections you build can define the experience. Here are some lessons I’ve discovered along the way.

1. Be open to people & experiences
It is easy to stick to what is familiar, but real growth happens when you open yourself up to new friendships and different ways of thinking. The people around you have so much to offer - culturally, intellectually, and personally — if you take the time to connect.

2. Support goes both ways
Just as much as you seek support from others, be there for them too. A strong support system is built on mutual encouragement, whether it is celebrating small wins, helping each other through tough times, or simply being a good listener.

3. Embrace differences
Living and studying with people from different backgrounds means encountering different habits, beliefs, and perspectives. Instead of seeing these as challenges, view them as opportunities to grow and expand your understanding of the world.

4. Communicate & set boundaries
Especially in shared living situations, setting expectations early helps prevent misunderstandings. Respect each other’s space, communicate openly, and do not be afraid to address small issues before they turn into bigger problems.

5. Find joy in the little moments
Some of the best memories are not made in big, planned events, but in the little things — conversations in the kitchen, impromptu outings, and moments of laughter after long days. Appreciate these, because they often turn out to be the most meaningful.

Looking back, I realize that my classmates were not just part of my academic journey, they were an integral part of my experience as a whole. They made a foreign place feel familiar, turned challenges into shared struggles, and celebrated victories together.

If you find yourself in a new program or environment, take the time to build a support system around you. Be open to new friendships, create a space where everyone feels valued, and be willing to step out of your comfort zone. Some of the people you meet might just become more than classmates or housemates - they could become lifelong friends and, in many ways, family.

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